/Private Experiences in Bathhouses: From Roman Baths to Modern Showers

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you had to navigate through a bathhouse while dealing with the etiquette of the place? I can share some unique experiences that I have had in various bathhouses that might surprise you.

Bathhouse Etiquette and Social Norms at Modern Showers

When I go to the gym, it is common etiquette to focus on yourself and your own activities. Occasional glances at others who might be near are acceptable, especially if you need to move through a crowd. However, staring at others is considered rude. One of the most interesting events I witnessed happened while in a public shower. A man suddenly ran from the locker areas to the shower section, then back to the locker area, only to return to the shower. He was trying to change out of his swimsuit after coming from the pool area. Another man entered the shower with a towel, quickly approaching the first man to chase him, using the wet towel to hit him with force. It was quite amusing and a clear violation of bathhouse etiquette to startle someone like that!

Observations at Various Beaches and Public Showers

Public showers provide their own set of interesting scenarios. While most public showers are separated by gender, some facilities offer mixed showers, which can lead to various interactions and behaviors. On one occasion, as I stepped into a public shower, I observed two men in the process of performing fellatio in the shower cubicle. Another time, I witnessed a man giving another man anal sex, both of whom were in an open shower cubicle, seemingly expecting others to join them. On private beaches that are bathing suit optional, I’ve seen couples engaging in consensual sexual activity in fairly open environments. I have always preferred a more private setting, but I have observed and tolerated some activities in threesome or foursome situations.

Historic and Modern Bathhouse Practices

The Roman bath, often found near swimming pools, has a long and rich history of sexual practices. In these public baths, multiple people shared the experience, and it wasn’t unusual for individuals to engage in homosexual or lesbian encounters. My experiences at our Roman bath by the pool were diverse. The water was self-regulated through filters and heated to keep it safe and clean for sex, minimizing the risk of bacteria and viruses. The bath was predominantly used for same-sex encounters. My wife and I had solo encounters with people of the same sex, while she also enjoyed intimate interactions with other women.

Conclusion

Bathhouses, whether in historical contexts or modern settings, hold a unique mix of social behaviors and practices. While they provide essential facilities, they also offer a platform for a variety of interactions, ranging from amusing and unconventional moments to more private and intimate encounters. Understanding and respecting the social norms of different bathhouses can enhance your experience and ensure a more enjoyable visit.