Shared Moments: Picking Out Engagement Rings Together and Surprises Along the Way
Engagement rings are not just symbols of love; they symbolize the commitment and dedication of two individuals to walk through life together. For many couples, together they pick out engagement rings, making it a shared experience filled with joy and anticipation. In this article, we will delve into the journey of one couple who picked an engagement ring together and the surprises that followed.
The Journey to the Perfect Engagement Ring
Today, 62 percent of couples share in the journey of picking out an engagement ring. While some prefer to keep it a surprise and let their significant other know they are open to suggestions, others might join in the fun of browsing and dreaming together. This article explores both sides of the story through the experience of my wife and I.
Together in Search of the Heart Shape Diamond
My wife and I embarked on a journey to find the perfect engagement ring together. The only request my wife made was a heart shape diamond. Finding a heart-shaped diamond proved to be a challenging task. She did not specify the carat weight or the budget, which made the search a bit more flexible and personal.
We searched through every jewelry store in town and even ventured into other cities around us, but came up empty-handed. The jewelers often offered to order a heart shape diamond, but the idea of not seeing the diamond beforehand was committing to a design I was not fully satisfied with. It took us a month to make a significant discovery.
A Surprising Twist
One day, while shopping for clothes, we stumbled upon a jewelry store at a mall near the state line. To our surprise, they had a heart-shaped diamond. My wife immediately noticed it and exclaimed, 'I want that one!' Her eyes lit up with excitement, and she had a big smile on her face.
I looked closer at the ring and refused to buy it. The diamond had a bad yellow tint and black spots, indicating the clarity was not up to par. Even though the price of 2500 was within my budget, I knew I could find a better diamond and wanted to ensure it was something my wife would cherish.
A Commitment to Quality and Surprise
Her disappointment did not affect her love for me, as she only wanted a heart-shaped diamond. Her deep love for our relationship made me want to do better and give her something truly special. I continued my search and eventually found a heart shape diamond in a locally owned jewelry store that had several options at varying carat weights and qualities.
The Final Choice
I selected a 1.50 carat solitaire set in a thick yellow gold band adorned with diamonds. We eventually proposed, and she was completely surprised and blown away by the ring. The day she saw it, her happiness was evident, and she was ecstatic, as it showed.
Continuing the Love Story
Over the years, we continued to surprise each other with new additions to her engagement ring. For our 10-year wedding anniversary, I upgraded her engagement ring to a 2ct heart-shaped solitaire, adding to the charm and weight. On our 15th anniversary, I decided to have her engagement ring custom-made in white gold, transforming it from yellow gold. She was beyond surprised and happy with the new look of the ring.
Commitment and surprise played crucial roles in our love story, allowing us to continue celebrating our journey with new additions to the ring that hold deep sentimental value.
Personal Insights and Advice
Engagement ring shopping can be a delightful and challenging endeavor. By looking for the heart shape together, you set a foundation of mutual love and understanding. For those who prefer to keep it a surprise, sharing the shopping experience before the proposal can create a wonderful bond. Additionally, custom-made rings offer a unique way to express your love and make the ring truly one-of-a-kind.
Remember, no matter the approach, the most significant aspect is the commitment and love you share with your partner. Happy shopping and may your love story be filled with beautiful moments!